If you started an MSP because you loved the technical work, and you now find yourself spending half your week on something called “sales” that you find vaguely unpleasant, I want to talk to you directly. I’ve worked with a lot of technical founders in the service provider space, and the sentence I hear most often, usually with a sigh behind it, is some version of “I hate sales” or “I’m just not a salesperson.”
Every time I hear it, I think the same thing. You’re draining your own retirement account, one sentence at a time.
This post is written for MSP and MSSP founders who are technically inclined, got pulled into the sales seat by circumstance, and want to stop feeling like sales is a tax on their day. The shift I’m going to ask you to make is psychological before it’s practical.
Sales Is a Noble Profession
Let’s start with the framing, because most of the resistance I hear from technical founders comes from an assumption about what sales is. The assumption, usually, is that sales is selfish. That it’s about convincing people to part with money they didn’t want to spend. That the salesperson is vaguely parasitic, extracting value from the customer on behalf of themselves.
None of that is true, and I’d push back harder than that. Sales is one of the most noble professions I can think of, for a simple reason: it’s performance-based. If a salesperson does a bad job, they earn less money. Show me one tier-two technician who, after phoning it in on a Thursday, voluntarily hands $30 back to the client. You won’t find one. Technicians get paid the same whether they crushed it or coasted. Salespeople don’t.
And the salesperson is taking that performance risk on your behalf. If they work for you, they’re running a miniature business underneath yours, and every success they have lands in your retirement account. They’re eating what they kill so you don’t have to. That’s a generous posture, not a selfish one. Once you see it that way, you stop treating your sales team like a necessary evil and start treating them like a profit center worth investing in.
Stop Saying “I Hate Sales”
If you’re the founder, and you’re still the one doing most of the selling because your revenue doesn’t yet support a full-time sales hire, I want to make a direct ask: delete the sentence “I hate sales” from your vocabulary. Also delete “I’m just not a salesperson.” Both sentences are lies, and both are actively sabotaging the business you’re trying to build.
You’re not a non-salesperson. Everybody is a salesperson. You’ve been selling since you asked your mom for a second popsicle on the Fourth of July. That’s what selling is, at its core: creating additional value for two parties at once. You got a popsicle. Your mom got the dopamine hit of making you happy. Both of you won. That’s the shape of every sale worth making, and you’ve been doing it your whole life.
When you say “I hate sales” to yourself or out loud to your peers, you’re programming a belief that will show up in every call you take. Your prospects will feel it. They’ll sense the apology underneath your pitch and the reluctance in your close. You’ll keep losing deals for reasons you won’t be able to name. The words sound harmless. They cost you real money.
Selling Is Solving
Here’s the reframe that tends to unlock the mindset shift for technical founders. Selling, done right, is just an extension of the work you already love. You got into this business because you like fixing things that are broken. You like taking knots and untangling them. You like solving problems nobody else can solve.
What is sales, if not exactly that set of activities? Your revenue is broken. Go fix it. Your prospect has a tangled misunderstanding about what an MSP does for their business. Go untangle it, with Socratic questions and patient explanation. Your sales process has a leak. Go find it and seal it up. When you think about selling as a set of problems to solve, the same brain that built your service stack starts to light up on sales work the same way it lights up on a thorny technical ticket.
You’re not a different person when you sit down to sell. You’re the same problem-solver, just with a different kind of knot in front of you.
Your Environment Is Programming Your Mindset
Here’s a piece of research that has stuck with me for years. A Harvard study a while back ran a simple experiment. One hundred random people on the street were asked to briefly hold a hot cup of coffee while the researcher checked their phone. Afterward, a different researcher approached them, handed them twenty dollars, described a fictional character, and asked them to describe the character in their own words. About eighty percent of the people who had held the hot coffee described the character as warm.
Then they ran the same experiment with cold coffee. About eighty percent of those people described the character as cold.
What that study demonstrates is that the majority of your thoughts are inherited from the environment you’re in, rather than organic to you. If you’re sitting in a peer group of MSP owners who spend every call complaining about how sales-y salespeople are, or how difficult clients are, or how the market is broken, you are going to start thinking the way they think. Your beliefs are not immune to the people around you.
The most tactical thing I can tell you, then, is also the most psychological. Edit your peer group. Surround yourself with service provider owners who have healthy, constructive beliefs about sales. Cut out the ones who don’t. That one change will do more for your pipeline over the next year than any training program you could buy.
One Change This Week
Pick the next peer conversation you’re scheduled to have this week. Before the call, notice your own self-talk about sales. If you hear “I hate this” or “I’m no good at this” running in your head, write those sentences down on a piece of paper, and then write underneath them: “Selling is solving. I’m good at solving.”
Then walk into the call with that frame, and notice the difference in how the conversation lands. The work ahead is large, but it starts with the sentences you tell yourself.
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